Monday, July 6, 2009

Youth day 2009 - Role models

Took half day leave to spend time with them.

Towards noon , receive call from daryl.
- Mentioned that Leonard, & Ryan is at Claudia house
- Say that he wants to go to claudia house as well...

Later afternoon
- At home. After i had brought to the library and Jack's place
- Give them half an hour to rest before studying.
- After the half an hour, when i asked him to study ( in the midst of my sleep), he mentioned that leonard is sleeping. So why he has to study .

Daryl
- You are the one having exams
- Your brother certainly needs a lot of disciplining ..and you know we are trying to manage him , to get him to study
- You should not use him as a reference..
- Just because he dont study, doesnt mean you should not...
- Look at his results...

ROle models
- In life, it is all up to you..
- Some will look at the most outstanding person, and follow him, see how he study, what he does to study well ...
- Some will want to be lazy, reference another lazy person and ask why he should study or work so hard. Even if they reference a outstanding person ie Justin, he will only talk about how much time Justin spent playing computer games etc...

Outcome
- If you choose the lazy boy hwo much better can you do then him ?
- If you choose a outstanding boy and only note down how much time he spent playing, what do you think will be the outcome...
- Adam Khoo succeeded, recovered by choosing good role models.

Remember
- You make your own choices
- You decide who you want to follow
- You decide how far you want to go ..

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